My pop culture weakness: Supernatural

I’ve wanted to write about Supernatural for some time now. I began watching the TV series a little more than a month ago because my younger son liked and likes it very, very much. I’ve never been a fan of horror, actually I usually hate the genre. And yet, I got hooked almost from the start. Not exactly at first sight, but after three or four episodes I was spellbound. They (meaning actors, authors, directors and all those involved) certainly don’t take themselves too seriously, the situations and dialogues are often mockingly exaggerated or outright crazy, but it also holds me breathless with suspense. They’re good, they’re really good.

Of course, I’m in love with Jared Padalecki, and with his character Sam Winchester, I mean, who isn’t? He is morally strong, sweet, brave, kind, thoughtful, a keen reader (a nerd, actually, drenched in intellectual curiosity), a bit narcissistic but mostly unselfish and, needless to say, stunningly handsome. Also, he considers the reasons of all those involved, rather than taking sides and busting in, guns blazing, no matter what. He makes mistakes, for sure, even huge ones; and over time, he dies and goes to Hell (yes, I’m talking literally here) several times in an attempt to make things right and help other people; from where, he is always saved by his likeable, protective and good but bossy, I’m-always-right, angry-all-the-time, restrained, macho-but-sensitive, ladies-man, unable-to-live-alone older brother Dean. The opposite is also true, that is, Sam saves Dean’s ass a number of times, but he doesn’t get so unbearably self-satisfied about it.

However, the character I’ve been most fond of, over the eight or nine seasons he appears in, is Mark Sheppard’s Crowley, the King of Hell. While Lucifer is the Antagonist with a capital A, Crowley is always somewhere in the middle, and I like that, as I’m all for grey areas. I think it’s his utter disregard for goodness and morality, combined with wonderful Brit humour and irony and a soft spot for the Winchesters, that make him so adorable. I loved it when they showed his mobile phone book numbers, divided between “Moose” (i.e. Sam) and “Not Moose” (i.e. Dean aka Squirrel). This was perhaps the first time that he revealed how he really felt about “the boys”. His mocking wickedness and the odd friendship/hatred dynamics between him, his mother Rowena, the angel Castiel, Lucifer and the boys are among the juiciest aspects and most valuable assets of the series. apparently, he won’t be in the last two seasons though (they’ve not arrived in Italy yet). I hope that whoever decided to eliminate the character for good will change their mind, it would be a real shame.

Then there is Misha Collins’s Castiel, angel and God, homeless wreck and warrior, well-meaning idiot and incredibly smart leader, gentle lover of humanity and icy killer, goes through all kinds of personalities over the years, always apparently unflappable, always capable of saying the most surreal things without so much as a blink (“I don’t sweat under any circumstances“), and yet always somehow revealing a lot through his eyes.

And what about delightfully, charmingly horrible, bewitchingly loathsome Rowena (Ruth Connell)? What about Meg, Ruby, Sarah, Eileen, Hannah, Jody, and all the array of strong-willed, warm-hearted or execrable (or both), doubt-filled or self-confident (or both) demons, women, angels and hunters who have loved, hated, betrayed, fought, lived, died (again, sometimes more than once) either for others or for themselves over the fifteen seasons of the series?

So what makes this TV show so special in my eyes? Mainly, it is the fact that it is not about horror at all. I mean, I suppose splatter film fans will find it’s straight up their street anyway. But what fascinates me, especially in this particular period, and apart all the craziness and humour and heartwarming, stubborn hope that fill it, it’s the questions it raises; universal, not-so-original, ubiquitous questions of humankind: life, survival, freedom, security, justice and revenge, good and evil, courage and foolhardiness, sense of responsibility and sense of guilt, love, loss and unhealthy need for someone, terrible choices made “for the greater good” and right choices made in one’s own self interest. What are the boundaries? I feel I need to reconsider them, work on these ideas and redefine them to some extent, and I’ve found myself relishing in the good old way of thinking about these issues by getting absorbed in an enthralling story.

I know there are some weak points too somewhere (well, a bit of U.S. and gun lobby propaganda for one, I guess), but after all, who cares, I’ve loved it through and through, still do, strong points and weak points and all.

The principle of entropy increasing

For those of you who speak English…

I have no sense of time, I mix up
the hours, the days and the seasons;
it was a year ago, I say,
but it’s been five instead, ten, a hundred.
Little by little, it’s getting late,
a few mass slaughters have escaped me,
and some war that was too far to see on time;
an earthquake too, and the offense of mud,
the raging fires of forests and homes.
Look at this dust,
the cobwebs spread among the tombs
of this country graveyard, that
tell us about the running of the river,
the waves travelling, one by one,
We recognize time from the leaves
that breath in the wind,
their clinging to the branch, like a last
surrender to the principle of entropy increasing,
the miracle of the disorder of life,
of its infinite possibilities,
against the celebrants of a mortal order,
of the lethal quietness of security
that only belongs to what does not exist.
You’ve buried my heart, and
you don’t know where, but my wounded knee
is an island of salt where Nobody will land,
a creation of the sea that brings back to me
the echo of the absent ones, whom I’ve always talked to
and who always answer.

Prisms, memories and hurricanes

From my book on Robin Williams, I’m translating it into English and this is a text i already posted on the blog in Italian. You can find it here. He influenced my way of thinking, my principles and the way in which I (try to) live my life much more than I can say. One of the people I admire (and love) most in the world.

We all know we have endless worlds inside. We love and admire most those people who unhinge our certainties, undermine clichés and cannot be forced to fit into any box. People who are full of contradictions and yet always true to themselves, multifaceted prisms that shimmer with lights of so many different colors depending on the place and time from which you are looking, and yet recompose themselves to form an indivisible whole.

It’s funny, then, that we insist nonetheless on putting these people, sooner or later, into some sort of category. Even more than others, perhaps, as we are fascinated but also somewhat afraid, worried, even a bit annoyed: as hard as we try, the unusual, the uncommon throws us off balance and therefore often gets under our skin; if we like someone, we try to bring them back to a sort of universal harmony, or at least, to our personal sense of harmony: he was one of us after all, the rich also cry, the sad clown, the depression of comedians, the dark side of fame. You smiled whenever you noticed these attempts, and walked your own path without a hint of anger – just a note of bitterness sometimes – and without letting yourself be changed.

It’s as if we liked to dishevel our world for a while, just for the sake of it, sure that the world will be soon restored. The wind can blow through our hair, provided it does not ruffle us up too much and does not make us fly. But when they are real, and not just appearance, these people are hurricanes, sweet and gentle, maybe, but hurricanes nonetheless, and you don’t take a hurricane in hand. We should just wish we are there when they come through, accept the upheaval they leave behind and not try to change their direction or movement, it’s perfect as it is, with all its illogicality, or rather, because of its illogicality, better still, because it follows an unusual logic.

Almost all of us have experienced the cruel fury of life against those who deserve it least, injustice hurts, and hurts badly, it makes us think that there must be some form of higher justice and if there isn’t, it should be invented. Many have had to deal with this sooner or later, but still I can’t accept that one of the most brilliant, generous, unconventional, tactful, kind, humble, gentle and unselfish men in the world had to face what is perhaps the worst fate one can suffer: losing your memory and your reason piece by piece (and the control over your body) and be aware of it.

With each detail added, I realize more and more that not only you were unique and special (we all are, in our own way), but that you’ve been able not to set a boundary to that uniqueness. Your greatness is so much more precious because it must be looked for, unveiled in a way: we can guess it, but it is not obvious.

Known for being kind in a town that has made a hallmark of kindness; known for being a genius in a performing arts school that accepted only the best; known for being a support and an important presence for your colleagues and for anyone else in a world in which the rule seems to be mors tua, vita mea. Known by whom, though? By those who make research, who listen to the small stories of “common” people, who are never common anyway, and certainly not in your eyes: the people who sold you bicycles, those who knew someone in the children’s hospitals where you would suddenly appear without telling anyone in advance. We shouldn’t read the words spoken immediately after your death, on the spur of the moment, guided by shock and maybe a desire to be in the limelight for a bit, but rather those said after some time, when a chance association stems from a sudden memory, and emotion takes a friend by surprise.

So, for all the pain and injustice that sometimes stir inside me like furies, I’m thinking that I’m glad you gave your wife a special day to tell her goodbye and decided to die while that goodbye was still in your eyes and in your heart. I’m glad that you were not unhappy at all, as we would have selfishly wished, maybe: that way, we wouldn’t have had to blame you for a decision which, on the other hand, was only yours (although for some form of morality I don’t understand, we should not be allowed to die until unhappiness and pain have entirely consumed us and the people near us). And there was more: perhaps, in our heart, many of us wished to make you happy, and it was easier to think no one else could do that. Although you suffered from depression at some point, it wasn’t the reason of your decision.

I’m glad you kept the spark of madness you had chosen yourself, and not the one that your disease would have forced into you, glad that you decided to die entire, while you were alive, without letting any form of constriction clutch at you, not even death itself. I’m glad (the word glad may sound odd in this context, but I know you would understand, and this is all what matters to me) that you kept until the last moment your limitless ability to think of others before yourself and take care of them, which was, in the end, the basis of all that zest for life that, whatever they say, you have always had and transmitted. Have no doubt, you were right to hang on to the memories you had left, prevent them from being deleted, before or after that day, because if you lose those, what’s left to desire, what dreams may come? Ah, your memory, your prodigious memory, by which you remembered the lines of every show and the name of anyone who passed you in the street, the memory you managed to preserve, as far as possible, to make it part of the way in which those who remain can remember. Only your strength of spirit was bigger than you memory, which made you hope against hope, for the sake of those you loved, that a different end was possible. But when it became clear that this was not the case, you took that love and all your courage, which wasn’t small, it was a heavy weight to carry too, but you didn’t think about it too long, you bundled it up in a bag like those of the wanderers of ancient times and walked away, leaving behind the best part of all you had given and received.

You are “my” hurricane, my love, let me call you that once again, in spite of everything, I wish you knew how important it was for me to be there while you passed by, to see you and try to understand you, just that, nothing more, so as to understand myself, collect the endless number of memories you’ve left behind and thus try not to lose my own memory. There are many ways to meet. My research is not finished yet. I’m still here.